Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani Noa has accused the star of cheating on him in a scathing new attack – after the singer said she had never been truly loved by any of her past partners, Daily Mail reports.
When asked by Howard Stern in a recent interview if she’d ever ‘truly been loved’, the star, 56, said no, adding: ‘What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable – it’s that they’re not capable…They don’t have it in them!’
Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani and were only married briefly from 1997 to 1998, but personal trainer Ojani appears to have taken great offence to her comments about her love life and penned a statement in response on his Instagram this weekend.
He alleges that she cheated on him, saying ‘the problem is you’ and that she should ‘tell the truth for once’.
Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani wrote in his post: ‘Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is not us. Not me.
‘The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants.
‘You have been ‘loved’ a few times. You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You’ve had good relationships… Me for example.’
‘I was in love with you… I moved out of state to support, protect and care for you. I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never [misbehaved], never cheated on you.
‘I was good to you. I’m too good of a [man] for you. You decided to lie, to cheat on me and even though I stayed… You begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press… But you went for the fast lane of your career/stardom not caring about me, you wanted to continue cheating and lying.’
‘Tell the truth for once… You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself.’
A representative for Jennifer has been contacted by Daily Mail for comment.
Jennifer took a swipe at her fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck and, well, every other man she’s ever been engaged to or married to in the past in the chat.
She said in the candid interview: ‘What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable…They don’t have it in them!’
‘And they gave me what they had, right?’ Jennifer explained on the SiriusXM show
‘They gave me all of it, every time – all the rings, all the things I could ever want, right? Tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage – all of it.’
And while Lopez felt she was giving all of her love to those past partners, she admitted she didn’t fully love herself and the men also needed to learn how to ‘appreciate the little person inside of them.’
The two-time Grammy nominee went on to say her February 21st divorce from Ben after two years of marriage ‘was the best thing that ever happened to me.’
‘It really made me journey into – I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction. I had everything,’ Jennifer confessed.
‘I was like, ‘I’m gonna f***in’ figure this s*** out if it kills me.”
Last year Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani spoke to The Daily Mail about their turbulent marriage.
‘I was the first, the pioneer,’ he said. ‘I was there at the beginning of her career supporting her, dealing with her anxieties and insecurities.
‘I was a really good husband because I believe in marriage. When we divorced, I was heartbroken. I feel when she got what she wanted, I was no longer needed.’
Marrying in 1997, a little over a year after meeting, they split just 11 months later.
‘I put a lot of time and effort into loving her,’ he said. ‘But when you’re with someone, you have to spend quality time with them and not think about being on camera.’
Ojani says it was he who called time on their marriage and a few days later says he received the divorce papers.
He reportedly received a $50,000 settlement after their split in January 1998.
‘I never looked at another woman when I was with Jennifer,’ said Ojani, ‘But I felt like I was [being seen as] the bad guy.
‘[Her people] wanted to make her look good because of everything that was coming out – the movie, the album, and they didn’t want any bad publicity.
‘They made it sound like I didn’t want to be with her and it was the opposite.’