Toke advises Nigerians to stop telling people how to heal from something such as a relationship breakup or divorce when they have not been through such themselves. She said this while condemning all those that have taken to their separate social media handles to attack actress Tonto Dikeh on her social media slandering of her ex-husband and baby Daddy, Olakunle Churchill.
Toke Makinwa just like Dabota Lawson, with the exception of Bobrisky who also is a close friend of Tonto Dikeh, have all seen their marriages crashed due to no fault of theirs; and while we know how that of Toke Makinwa hit a brick wall a few months after her wedding, little is known about that of Dabota Lawson. But these women seeing how their friend Tonto Dikeh has been going about with her rants and how she have been verbally attacked, have all come out to show her the support she needs as a friend.
Toke advises Nigerians especially all those kicking Tonto Dikeh for bashing her baby Daddy to stop being a judge in something they have not experience before. She took to her Instagram page to put up this photo and this caption:
“We are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal different. Everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to. Stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure.
If you cannot be kind, say nothing. It’s ok to be quiet, try it sometime, you won’t die. You don’t have to understand everyone’s journey or life’s choices but it’s your duty to respect it. Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge let’s hope when it’s your turn, you remain standing to handle it half as strong or as perfect as you try to claim be. #fridayinspiration #Judgenot #Bekind” she said.